Do you know why it’s so easy to judge other people?
Because we don’t know what they know. We can’t see what’s swirling around in their minds, their doubts and fears and insecurities. We can’t see the memories that make them wince or hide or flare up.
We can’t see their good intentions either. We’re guessing at what motivates them—and we’re almost always wrong.
If we could see what they see, we may still not like them. Who knows? But we probably wouldn’t judge them anymore.
I’d love to know how you see it. Join me in the comments!