I usually stay away from social and political commentary. But in light of the recent tweets—is that what we’re still calling them?—I feel compelled to share some wisdom that I first heard from comedian Michael Yo that applies to communication.
Yo’s father gave him the following advice for keeping peace in a marriage:
Always say the third thing.
In a discussion, disagreement, or exchange that seems headed towards an argument, never say the first thing that comes to mind. It will likely be careless and half-baked.
Don’t even say the second thing that comes to mind because that thought could still be reactionary and emotionally charged.
Say the third thing. By then, you’ve taken a breath. You’ve considered the impact. And you’re responding rather than reacting, which carries a tone of wisdom and maturity.
Apply this to every interaction. (Especially the ones that involve a keyboard and screenshots that live forever.)
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